Guess who was seen in LA: America’s favorite 70s TV mom who secretly dated her on-screen husband.

She was once celebrated as rural America’s mom, managing a household and raising a gaggle of seven kids in a beloved 1970s sitcom. 

Her first name was meant she was often mistaken for a male, which resulted in her being billed as ‘Miss’ early in her career.  

The actress grabbed three Emmy awards as Lead Actress in a Drama after being nominated six times for her warm and charismatic performance.

Later in her career, she appeared in iconic soap operas including All My Children, One Life to Live, General Hospital and The Young and the Restless.

She also revealed exclusively to DailyMail.com that she had a secret romance with her on-screen husband. 

Can you guess who she is?

She was once celebrated as rural America’s mom, managing a household and raising a gaggle of seven kids in a beloved 1970s sitcom

Her first name was meant she was often mistaken for a male, which resulted in her being billed as ‘Miss’ early in her career 

The actress grabbed three Emmy awards as Lead Actress in a Drama after being nominated six times for her warm and charismatic performance

It’s Michael Learned! 

Now 85 years old, Learned was spotted on a rare outing in Los Angeles with her fourth husband, John Doherty, who she married in 1991.

The actress got out of her gray sedan carrying a valet ticket and canned seltzer.

Learned smiled as she talked to a doorman while another valet approached the car to move it to another location. 

She wore comfortable and casual clothing, including gray joggers, a navy blue speckled shirt, blue slide-on sneakers, a light gray canvas coat, a stylish black purse with gold hardware, and matching dainty gold jewelry.

Her husband Doherty wore glasses with black frames, a green cardigan and a khaki brown shirt.

Michael Learned, 85, was spotted on a rare outing in Los Angeles with her fourth husband, John Doherty, who she married in 1991

Learned got out of her gray sedan carrying a valet ticket and canned seltzer 

Learned smiled as she talked to a doorman while another valet approached the car to move it to another location

Learned hit it big with the role of Olivia Walton in the television drama The Waltons, transitioning away from the Broadway stage

Learned has achieved her happily ever after with husband Doherty, a California-based lawyer.

But she had to strike out three times to achieve it. 

She first tied the knot with Canadian-American actor Peter Donat – who passed away in 2018 – when she was only 17 years old and he was 28. 

They both performed in various capacities at the American Conservatory Theater in San Francisco, California, and had three sons together. However, their marriage ended after 16 years.

Her second marriage to Glenn Chadwick, a stagehand, in 1974 lasted only two years before she married actor and screenwriter William Parker, her third husband. Their marriage ended in divorce in 1989.

But it was her first split from Donat that would define her acting career. 

Learned achieved her happily ever after with husband Doherty, a California-based lawyer

She first tied the knot with Canadian-American actor Peter Donat – who passed away in 2018 – when she was only 17 years old and he was 28 

Learned with her second husband Glenn Chadwick, a stagehand, at the Golden Globe Awards in 1974, the year they married

Learned wed third husband, actor and screenwriter William Parker, in 1979

Since the pair had acted together at the San Francisco theater, Learned told the Archive of American Television that she had a feeling she wouldn’t be welcomed back after her divorce. 

Making the trip down to Los Angeles in search of work with only a few items to her name and a severe alcohol addiction, she was told about an opportunity to be in the television drama, The Waltons – a show that features an Appalachian family navigating the Great Depression.  

Initially, she had no interest in the show, wanting to stay on stage instead. She even showed up to the screen test hungover. 

But as soon as the scene began with her future castmates, Richard Thomas and Ralph Waite, she quickly found her rhythm and let her acting chops take over. 

Convinced she hadn’t gotten the part, Learned said she put the audition in the back of her mind. But four days later she got the call – she was going to be the mother of America. 

And Learned’s screen presence as the matriarch earned her three Emmys as Lead Actress in a Drama after being nominated six times.

Initially, Learned had no interest in , wanting to stay on stage instead. She even showed up to the screen test hungover. But she soon found her rhythm with on-screen husband Ralph Waites and Richard Thomas as John Boy

Learned’s screen presence as the matriarch earned her three Emmy awards as Lead Actress in a Drama after being nominated six times

Learned told DailyMail.com on the fifth anniversary of her on-screen husband Ralph Waite’s death, that the duo ‘were in love’ off-screen and even went on a date

Learned referred to Waite as her ‘spiritual husband’ and said he saved her from a life of heavy drinking during the early seasons of The Walt

Learned told Dailymail.com, on the fifth anniversary of her on-screen husband Ralph Waite’s death, that the duo ‘were in love’ off-screen and even went on a date. 

But the pragmatic pair decided during their first intimate meeting that they probably shouldn’t pursue a romance as it could ruin the famous show and ‘get messy’.

Instead, Learned said their instant chemistry turned into a lifelong friendship and Waite became her ‘spiritual husband.’

She also revealed how Waite ‘saved her life’ as her heavy drinking – mainly bourbon and wine – ran out of control during the early years of the CBS series.

The actress stayed on the show for seven seasons, reappearing for season eight briefly under the guise of her character developing tuberculosis and entering a sanatorium in Arizona.

But she returned for four out of the six sequel movies after the show ended. 

The actress also was nominated for two Emmys, winning one, for her role as Nurse Mary Benjamin in the critically acclaimed drama series Nurse

Learned was born in Washington D.C. and raised on a farm in Connecticut for the first ten years of her life. She was the eldest of six sisters

During the 80s, she appeared in the films Touched by Love, Power and Dragon: The Bruce Lee Story. 

She kept up with her fledging television career and was nominated for two Emmys, winning one, for her role as Nurse Mary Benjamin in the critically acclaimed drama series Nurse, which ran from 1981 to 1982.

As the decades passed, the actress transitioned to soaps and appeared in All My Children and One Life to Live as Judge Turner, General Hospital as Shirley Smith and The Young and the Restless as matriarch Katherine Chancellor.

Recently, Learned returned to television in a streaming service format to star as the infamous serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer’s grandmother in the Netflix series Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story.

Learned was born in Washington D.C. and raised on a farm in Connecticut for the first ten years of her life. She was the eldest of six sisters.

She comes from a family of diplomats as her father Bruce worked for the State Department and her maternal grandfather worked in embassies.