‘RHOC’ Alum Lydia McLaughlin Is ‘Devastated’ By Her Brother’s Death During Traffic Stop

A star from a reality television show, who was part of the cast in 2013 and 2018, recently shared her deep sorrow over the tragic passing of her sibling and has requested for some space to grieve privately.

The Newport Beach Police Department released a statement detailing that Lydia McLaughlin’s brother, named Geoffrey Shyam Stirling, was involved in an incident where he was shot by police after displaying uncooperative behavior during a standard traffic stop.

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Lydia McLaughlin’s Brother Was Shot Dead By Newport Beach Police During A Traffic Stop

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Reports from TMZ indicate that Stirling was riding his motorcycle on the Pacific Coast Highway in Newport Beach when he was flagged down by the authorities.

A source claimed Stirling became “uncooperative” with the law enforcement officers, causing one of them to shoot him.

No police officers were injured during the encounter.

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Newport Beach Police Department Stopped Lydia McLaughlin’s Brother For A ‘Traffic Violation’

On April 18, the Newport Beach Police Department shared more details about the shooting on their Instagram.

They explained that after stopping Stirling on “West Coast Highway,” the 45-year-old became defiant and “assaulted” one of the officers.

“Shortly after being stopped, Stirling became uncooperative and assaulted the officer,” the post read. “During the ensuing violent altercation, Stirling managed to remove the department-issued taser from the officer’s duty belt and attempted to deploy it multiple times against the officer. At that point, an officer-involved shooting occurred.”

Other officers arrived on the scene and attempted to render aid to McLaughlin’s brother before he was transported to the local hospital, where he later passed away.

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The post also stated that the California Department of Justice (DOJ) would be conducting an internal investigation into the incident.

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Lydia McLaughlin Says Her Family Is ‘Devastated’ By The Passing Of Her Brother

In a statement to TMZ, McLaughlin, 44, said she and her family were grieving the loss of her brother.

“My family and I are devastated by the loss of my brother,” she said. “We are grateful for the outpouring of love and support from friends, family, and the community. We kindly ask for privacy as we mourn.”

Although she hasn’t explicitly addressed the news on her social media yet, she did share a cryptic post on Instagram with the message: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”

Her “Real Housewives” co-star, Vicki Gunvalson, commented and offered her support to McLaughlin and her family.

“Lydia – I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother! My heart hurts for you and your family. Peace be with you,” Gunvalson wrote.

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Others also chimed in, sending love and encouragement her way.

McLaughlin Lost Her Mother Six Months Ago

In another Instagram post, McLaughlin opened up to her followers about how she’s learned to process grief after her mother passed away.

She explained that attending a group, Grief Share, has “helped me in my healing and processing my grief.”

The “Orange County” alum continued, “Grief can make you better or bitter. I am putting in my whole heart to turn my sorrow into thanksgiving, for having the privilege to have such a beautiful mom. She will always be my hero, and my favorite.”

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