Dad Walks His Children Down the Aisle One Day after Learning He Only Had Two Months to Live

A father’s love is something that many children long for and cherish. One dad from Pennsylvania always made sure his kids knew he was proud of them, and when a life-altering diagnosis shocked his family, he did something heartwarming.

Ken McHugh and his wife Tammy were a happy couple, making memories with their four kids. They never anticipated that life as they knew it would change forever, but it did when Ken was diagnosed with cancer in 2010.

The illness and two-year life expectancy encouraged Ken to tick things off his bucket list. He went on an African safari and visited places across Europe. However, there was one thing on the dad’s list that he kept putting off—writing farewell letters to his beloved children.

A Heartbreaking Realization

Ken dreamed about seeing his three daughters and one son get married in the future. When his health condition became increasingly worse, he did something brave. With the help of his family and a non-profit charity, Team CMMD, they organized an unforgettable event.

The father had the chance to walk his children down the aisle in a wedding ceremony. He also wrote them letters for the big day but struggled to decide what to say. It was an emotional realization, knowing he wouldn’t be there on their wedding days.

It Was a Tear-Jerking Experience

Ken was grateful for the opportunity to give his kids away and ensure they knew how he felt about them. The dad started each letter the same way: “I have a secret to tell you. You’re my favorite.”

The sentence made his kids laugh, and the rest of the letters included affirmations for each child, along with a description of just how much he loved them. It was a tear-jerking experience but one they wouldn’t have forgone for anything in the world.

Ken didn’t want his family to worry after his death. His only son, Dylan, had already taken on the role of being the man of the house, and the father was sad because he wouldn’t be around to provide for his loved ones.

The Unforgettable Wedding Ceremony

On October 3, 2015, Samantha, Dylan, Julia, and Kathryn walked down the aisle arm in arm with their beloved father. He handed them to God and the new families waiting for them in the future.

Ken was in awe of the beautiful celebration arranged in his honor and for the sake of his family. The girls looked stunning, and his son wore a dapper suit. Amid the heartache of the day, there was also immense joy. Ken said:

“It just knocks me over. It’s more than I ever imagined. It’s absolutely beautiful; it’s bittersweet.”

Renewing Their Vows

Ken spoke from the front of the altar, encouraging his family to push ahead after his passing. He didn’t want them to mourn because there was a long and happy life ahead of them. The kids cried, but many of the tears were from gratitude.

They were thankful for the special memory, and the years they did have with their father. Mom Tammy also had a heartwarming moment during the ceremony. She and Ken renewed their vows after 20 years of marriage. Ken expressed:

“It was very remarkable. I don’t know if everyone cries when they’re renewing their vows, but the both of us sure did.”

The Father’s Greatest Accomplishment

Tammy couldn’t believe her children had smiles on their faces throughout the wedding day. Nobody mentioned Ken’s cancer, and the dad couldn’t hide his pride.

Seeing his kids grow and reach for their dreams would always be his most outstanding achievement. He knew the wedding ceremony would be etched into their hearts forever, and he added:

“I think when they look back, they’ll go to that in times of need and happiness. When they go to it, it will be to seek reassurance, the belief that I have of them.”

Providing for His Family

Ken didn’t want his family to worry after his death. His only son, Dylan, had already taken on the role of being the man of the house, and the father was sad because he wouldn’t be around to provide for his loved ones.

However, a GoFundMe page saw thousands of dollars raised for the family to assist with the kids’ schooling and other needs. The children had high aspirations, and Ken was thankful for every donation. He passed away in December, two months after the beautiful wedding celebration.

The Online Reaction

Ken’s story touched the online community, and many prayed for the family. Users also asked God to comfort his loved ones during the painful season following his death:

“May you always feel your father with you but really feel him on your wedding day, and all other important days you have, may it be bad or a beautiful day, always know he is with you. May God bless you, Ken, and always be with you and your family.”

– (Jan Baldelli) October 13, 2015

“What a beautiful couple and a very handsome young man. May God give you both the strength to help through this difficult time. Love to your FAMILY.”

– (Alvarez Dolly) October 13, 2015

“Praying for this family. So wonderful God gave them this time to share. Also praying for God to comfort them always.”

– (Marilynn Bittner Carstens) October 13, 2015

“I love this oh-so-wonderful gentleman. He loves his kids and wife so dearly. This was such a great idea. I will continue to pray for his strength through his journey. My mom had pancreatic cancer she was amazing all through it. I love and pray for your family.”

– (Julie Hought) October 13, 2015

Losing a parent is painful, and something loved ones will always think about. Hopefully, the memories made during the emotional wedding ceremony will remain alive in the hearts and minds of Ken’s kids. RIP, kind father.

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