Is Ezra Miller Married? Inside the Non-binary Actor’s Private Life

Ezra Miller is currently not married but has been romantically linked with several women and has a fair share of heartbreaks and disappointments. Here is a look into the life of the non-binary actor who does not believe in monogamy.

Tokata Iron Eyes, activist and member of the Standing Rock Sioux tribe, met a then-23-year-old Ezra Miller in 2016 — when she was only 12 — while the actor was visiting the Standing Rock Reservation in North Dakota, according to new legal documents acquired by TMZ.

Her parents claim that from there, she and Ezra Miller formed a friendship that puts Tokata Iron Eyes in danger. They claim that the actor disrupted her schooling while she was at a private institute in Massachusetts.

Ezra Miller at the 64th Cannes International Film Festival for a photo call for “We need to talk about Kevin” on May 12, 2011 | Source: Getty Images

According to Eyes’ parents, Miller — best known as The Flash in the DC superhero films — also made their daughter drop out of school in December 2021.

In their legal document asking a court to step in and keep Miller away from their daughter, they claim that the actor uses “violence, intimidation, the threat of violence, fear, paranoia, delusions, and drugs to hold sway over a young adolescent Tokata.”

Tokata Iron Eyes at the All It Takes Lasting Legacy event to celebrate youth leadership on April 28, 2018 | Source: Getty Images

DOES EZRA MILLER HAVE A PARTNER?

The actor, born on September 30, 1992, is 29 and unmarried; however, they are not alone. Miller does not have one partner but has a group of sexual partners that they refer to as a “polycule,” a blend of polyamorous and molecule.

Miller revealed in an interview that their polycule consists of people they have known for years, such as their Sons Of An Illustrious Father band members and new people who fit right into the lifestyle of the polycule.

In 2012, the actor also revealed that they were in love with no one and had been trying to figure out relationships. However, they were not aggressively pursuing monogamous binds as they were not ready for them.

Ezra Miller at the premiere of “City Island” on March 10, 2010 | Source: Getty Images

WHO IS EZRA MILLER?

Miller is an American actor who is the youngest child and only son in a family of three children and was born in New Jersey to a modern dancer mother and a publisher father.

They made their feature film debut in 2008 when they starred in “Afterschool.” They followed this movie by starring in a drama in 2011 as the title character in “We Need to Talk About Kevin.” They have been in over 20 movies and short films.

Ezra Miller in Seoul for a photocall for ‘URBAN DECAY’ stayNAKED on August 20, 2019 | Source: Getty Images

In 2012, they starred in the film adaptation of “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” before starring in the drama “The Stanford Prison Experiment” in 2015 and the comedy “Trainwreck.”

In the 2010s, they took the role of Credence Barebone, also known as Aurelius Dumbledore, in the Fantastic Beasts franchise movies: “Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them in 2016, Fantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald in 2018, and Fantastic Beasts: The Secrets of Dumbledore in 2022.

Ezra Miller in New York for the “Time 100 Next” on November 14, 2019 | Source: Getty Images

Besides acting, Miller is a talented singer and musician, and they trained as an opera singer from six to help them as they struggled with a speech impediment.

The non-binary actor who uses they and them pronouns is also in a band called Sons Of An Illustrious Father. In the band, they also have their friends Lilah Larson and Josh Aubin.

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