Rudy Pankow’s Parents Work in the Medical Field Are Nothing like His Abusive Onscreen ‘Outer Banks’ Dad

Rudy Pankow is JJ Maybank on the Netflix teen drama series “Outer Banks,” but his life isn’t haunted by an abusive father figure like the character he plays.

It’s easy to project a character’s history and personality onto the actor playing it, especially when the actor is Rudy Pankow, who has brought such pathos and empathy to his portrayal of “Outer Bank’s” JJ Maybank.

JJ Maybank’s life is scarred by the abuse he suffers at the hands of his brutal father, but Rudy Pankow’s family life couldn’t be more different. Meet his loving and lovable parents.

Rudy Pankow was born in Ketchikan, Alaska, on August 12, 1998. After he finished high school, he flirted with the idea of attending culinary school and becoming a chef, but his passion for acting won out.

Pankow moved to Los Angeles and studied acting at the Michael Woolson Studios. He worked in several short films and guested on TV shows like “The Politician” and “Solved.”

In 2020, Pankow landed the role of JJ Maybank in the series “Outer Banks,” co-starring with Chase Stokes and Madelyn Cline. The part of JJ Maybank proved to be Pankow’s breakthrough role and won him an MTV Award for Best Kiss.

The Netflix series “Outer Banks,” now in its third season, follows a group of teens looking for treasure and dealing with social issues between the wealthy and the poor residents of a small coastal town in North Carolina.

While Pankow’s empathy helped him understand JJ, his reality is very different.

Pankow’s character JJ Maybank has been John B’s best friend since the third grade and is staunchly loyal. JJ tends to be erratic, volatile, impulsive, and has a terrible secret.

His father, a drug addict, and an alcoholic, is physically and psychologically abusive. JJ’s mother left the family, and his father blames him for it.

JJ’s reckless devil-may-care attitude is a mask to hide the pain he’s going through. Pankow said JJ forced him to dig deep and to portray his mental and emotional agony. He said:

“When you are playing a character like JJ, you feel a certain responsibility to portray that character as organic and real because of the people in the world that are actually going through this.”

While Pankow’s empathy helped him understand JJ, his reality is very different. He has no traumatic childhood to overcome and no abusive relationship with his father. Pankow confessed:

“When I had to do some really heavy emotional scenes, I would first off do a little check and be grateful. Be very grateful and thankful for the life that I’ve lived.”

Pankow’s parents are Andrew Pankow and Penny Pedersen. Andrew has been a doctor at PeaceHealth Medical Group in Ketchikan, Alaska, since 2005 and studied at the University of Wisconsin Medical School-Madison.

In 2016, shortly before he left for Los Angeles, Pankow shared a sweet photo of himself and Penny on the beach looking happy and relaxed and captioned it:

“Through thick and thin, she has always supported me. Love&Thank you, Mom.#anddad#penny#labound#beachfam#familyis#1”

Rudy Pankow’s parents believed in him and his dream, and he is now on his way to becoming a major star.