Man Loved His Wife, Bought Her a New Car and a $10K Ring — Later Kicks Her Out on Election Day

One day, the man received a long message from his wife, explaining that their marriage was almost over. He cried after reading the message. 

The wife confessed that their marriage had been going downhill for the past ten months, but the man was clueless. He asked her what made her think that. 

He narrated his story in a detailed Reddit post, explaining what happened between him and his wife. Other Redditors supported him after reading his reaction.

The man’s wife said their marriage was “bad” for the past ten months, but she didn’t tell him earlier. He confessed crying every night after the day she sent her a detailed message. 

He asked her what made her think their marriage was falling apart, but he didn’t get any clear answer from her side. He even asked her if he had done something wrong, but she didn’t blame him for anything. 

“There is nothing wrong with you. It’s me. I am just a bad person for you,” she said. She blamed everything on her mental health issues, so OP (Original Poster) asked her to go for therapy with him, but she refused. 

Three months later, he discovered why she wanted to end their marriage. It turned out that she was dating another man who was a felon. 

Following multiple therapy sessions, the man decided to kick his wife out.

When he found out about her infidelity, he assumed she had been dating multiple men and didn’t tell him. He thought so because he had contracted trichomoniasis from her. 

Upon confrontation, she hit him. The man recalled that he had never beaten her and always cared for her. He bought her expensive rings and even gifted her a BMW.

The abuse reminded him of her ex-boyfriend, who used to hit her a lot. He confessed that he saved her from him by marrying her, but it seemed like he had made the wrong decision. 

Before deciding on anything, he sought help from a therapist. After sharing his feelings, the therapist suggested ways to repair the emotional damage. 

Following multiple therapy sessions, the man decided to kick his wife out. He also discovered that his wife thought he was cheating on her with a co-worker for two years. 

He narrated his story on Reddit, inviting other Redditors in the same city for a celebration. “Liberty on election day!” he wrote. 

He concluded his post by revealing that he had worked two jobs to pay off his debts, yet he pampered his wife with expensive things. He felt she never deserved everything that he had done for her. 

Redditor manpride02 appreciated OP for being brave enough to kick his wife out and asked him not to forgive his wife if she came back after realizing her mistake. 

“She came with the “I am sorry” crap and sent her back on her way,” OP assured. He confessed he felt great after kicking her out. 

“Man, your new life just began. You can do better,” ScarySlice9 added and urged OP to get his name on the car he gifted her. The user also asked him to expose his wife’s affairs and wait for the perfect partner for himself. 

Most Redditors felt happy for the man and told him he did the right thing by realizing his worth and kicking his wife out of his life. They assured him he would find someone much better than her. 

Questions to Ponder:

What would you do if you were OP?

The man felt heartbroken when his wife said their marriage wasn’t working, and he learned there was someone else. It took him a lot of time to gather the courage to kick her out of his life and realize his worth. What would you do if you were in his place? Would you come up with a revenge plan to teach her a lesson?

Do you think OP did the right thing by kicking his wife out?

After learning his wife cheated on him, the man was heartbroken. He kicked her out after she hit him because that was unbearable for him. Things ended without him knowing why she cheated on him despite the love he showered on her. Would you have wanted answers first if you were OP? Or would you kick your spouse out as he did?

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